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​John Roger Barnes

July 1, 1968 ~ July 29, 2017 (age 49) 49 Years Old
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Message from Roxanne Daugherty
September 29, 2017 7:57 PM

Jody, I am just finding out about John's passing and I wanted to let you know how sorry I am and how much I will be thinking about you! You will be in my thoughts and prayers!
Message from Janet Allen
August 13, 2017 7:05 PM

Very sad to hear of John's passing. Mike and I (former neighbors) give our love and condolenses to Sydney and to all those who feel this horrible loss.
Message from Balmin Bingham
August 8, 2017 12:13 AM

John was my trainer at Cisco in 2008 in Raleigh. He was an amazing teacher and a great friend. He definately loved his students. He definately impacted my life in more ways than one. Our last conversation was on July 27th and it was a great one. We miss you JB!! You have left a mark on us!
Message from Elisabeth Nason
August 7, 2017 9:06 PM

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Message from Nicole Scheffler
August 7, 2017 7:14 PM

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Message from Glenn &Patty Robbins
August 7, 2017 11:25 AM

Jody, Sydney and family, were so saddened to hear of Johns passing, although we never met in person he touched our hearts and was an inspiration, thank you for being so good to our dear friend Jody and thank you for your service, thank you for being our friend, Firever in our hearts
Message from Andre Serrao
August 6, 2017 11:32 AM

Sad news from such fun and entertaining person. I'm also one of the hundreds of people that John impacted earlier in our careers at Cisco. My condolences to the family. RIP, JB.
Message from Wayne Fleetwood
August 5, 2017 6:42 PM

I never had the chance to meet this man, only seen him on Facebook with Jodie. The look of joy and happiness that he brought to her was evident in her face. I am truly sorry to hear of his passing. I know he will be missed. My condolences go out to Jodie, his family and friends. Rest easy big John
Message from Shannon Robles
August 5, 2017 5:59 PM

I will never forget John's vivacious personality and knack for teaching as our lives crossed paths with me being a new college graduate in training at Cisco back in 2004. He was a great teacher who shaped many career paths and we spent nearly every M-F with him for 6 months! To Sydney; he would talk about you frequently and I am very sorry for you and your family's loss. Words cannot describe how shocked I was to hear John is no longer here. He will be greatly missed.
Love, Shannon Robles
Message from Monica Desai
August 5, 2017 4:14 PM

John was my trainer, teacher and friend in the Cisco ASE program. I don't think he knew what an impact he had on people. He shaped many of our careers and lives and taught us to have fun while learning, be kind to one another and always made us feel at ease in stressful situations. He never took things to seriously and always enjoyed the moment. I remember his fun spirited sayings like "howdy ho neighbors" every time we walked through the door. He was a true gem and we are so lucky to have spent many months with him every day. I will never forget him. I pray for his family, daughter and fiancAC.e for them to garner as much strength as they can to get through this difficult time. Will miss him and may he RIP.
Message from Scott Seaward
August 5, 2017 3:29 PM

John or SSGT Barnes is who my military mind thinks of is stuck in 1997, he helped me to become a great leader by his example. He inspired me on his relationship with his daughter, fitness, and his professional career. You had such a great impact on this world few people can have the same said about them. Prayers for his family
Message from Diana Aguilar Baldonado
August 5, 2017 2:40 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family ,Sean I will continue to pray for peace and comfort so sorry to hear about John .
Message from Sheli mills
August 5, 2017 2:39 PM

So sorry for your loss
Message from Fatima Razvi
August 5, 2017 1:44 PM

My deepest sympathies and condolence to the Barnes family. John your smiles will shine on us from heaven. You are responsible for so many of our successful careers and life at Cisco.. I still use what I've learned from you 12 years ago and your teachings will live through 100s of us. Best coach, mentor, teacher, friend....
Message from Steve Briscuso
August 5, 2017 7:56 AM

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Message from Marlene Gibson Funk
August 4, 2017 11:42 PM

I'm so very sorry to hear this terrible news. Way to young to leave this earth! My heart goes out to Jodi and his family. Love you Jodi. I will be praying for all.
Message from Sherri Fairchild
August 4, 2017 11:27 PM

Prayers of comfort for Jody and John's family. He will be missed.
Message from Dedrick J Clark
August 4, 2017 10:40 PM

Thanks for the inspiration and guidance my brother. Words can't express the pain of losing your presence. One of the only people in the world that I would drop everything for at a moment's notice. May your family be at peace. SEMPER FI
Message from Linda king
August 4, 2017 10:30 PM

Prayers for all of you . John was an amazing person he always made u laugh. Rest in peace BB. you will be missed.
Message from David Richards
August 4, 2017 10:29 PM

Once a Marine, Always a Marine. You will never be forgotten. Thanks for your leadership and support in the Corps and out.
Message from Jason and Melisa Pearce
August 4, 2017 9:07 PM

John was a great man with positive energy everywhere he went. I was blessed to have been stationed with him in Athens,GA where he always kept morale high.
Message from Bonnie & David Hammond
August 4, 2017 8:07 PM

Bonnie & David Hammond lit a candle for ​John Roger Barnes
Message from Myna Chang
August 4, 2017 7:21 PM

I am so sorry for your loss.
Message from Christy Williams
August 4, 2017 6:29 PM

So Sorry for your loss.
Message from Lori Brown
August 4, 2017 6:00 PM

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Message from Charla Hiner Jenkins
August 4, 2017 5:43 PM

My heart and prayers go out to you all. John's personality and smile were infectious to anyone around him. As BC class mates I will always have wonderful, sweet, memories.
ai" Charla
Message from Linda Fleming
August 4, 2017 5:12 PM

It is with profound sadness that I will never meet this sweet Prince who treated my dear friend like such a queen and showered her with love. I know I, too, would have loved him, as evidently did many. He lived a wonderful life, had a beautiful daughter and traveled the world with his love. He still had much to do I imagine. Gone far too soon. My deepest sympathies to you, Jody and his dear family. I am so sorry.
Message from Bonnie & David Hammond
August 4, 2017 4:49 PM

Our Hearts go out to Jody the "Love of John's Life"
And his Beloved daughter Sydney. The loss of John is unimaginable to So many people that had the Honor of knowing him. He was the kindness most sincere friend you could ever have. The loss is Great and Our Prayers will continue for the family at this most difficult time. We are deeply Honored to have known John and were Blessed to have witnessed such a Loving man to Dear Jody, we Always said "He Fell from Heaven"!
Good bye John may you Rest in Eternal Peace
Message from Beth Barker
August 4, 2017 4:03 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss and I will be praying for strength, peace, and comfort for the family. He will be greatly missed.
Beth Barker
Message from Todd Bushman
August 4, 2017 3:59 PM

Jody, Sydney and Barnes family - I'm so very to hear of your loss. I'll miss his humor for sure, and a more loyal friend you couldn't find.
Message from Aaron Andrews
August 4, 2017 3:46 PM

My condolences and prayers for John's family. Many memories are flooding back, John was a natural leader and mentor to many.
Message from Lori Pemberton
August 4, 2017 2:30 PM

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Message from Beau Beeson
August 4, 2017 1:58 PM

Semper Fi, Brother! I love you like the older brother you are to me. Till we meet again, fair winds and following seas.
Message from Penny &Jerry Deshong
August 4, 2017 12:24 PM

With tears in our eyes upon hearing of your sweet
Wonderful man John passing.
Like you Jody we are still in shock he was a man bigger than life and shared his love of life and joy to all who ever met him.
He will forever and always be loved and remembered in our hearts.
Sending hugs and prayers to you Dear Jody and to his precious daughter Sydney, even thou I never met her I felt like I did whenever we were with John his
Talking about her his eyes would light up and he would just beem!
But above all that Jody the love John had for you was over the top! As pumped and fit as he was
His chest would double up even more when you
Walked into the room and he saw you..
Such love and devotion for you in his eyes....
May the many memories you shared together
Along with your love for each other comfort you in this time of sorrow Jody.....
We love you Always and forever
Penny Deshong
Message from Kim kranz
August 4, 2017 10:57 AM

So sorry to Jody and the Barnes family my prayers and thoughts Are with all of you all words can't describe how sad this News is to everyone he will be truly missed will live in are hearts forever Love Kim Jody best friend 😥😥😥😥
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